JANUARY...
"when you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive - to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love." Marcus Aurelius
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Year in Review
JANUARY...
happy endings.
The rest of the world, unfortunately, has not gotten this memo.
Last night, I was admittedly in a not-so-hot mood. Not in a terrible mood, just not in a great mood. So when I headed to the movies with Michael, I was excited that we were seeing what I THOUGHT was going to be a feel good movie. BEFORE you attack me, though, let me say this--it WAS great. It WAS hilarious. I WOULD see it again. I probably would have liked it a lot more if I'd seen it when I wasn't upset about something. It was just, at the end (and I'm SPOILING this for anyone who hasn't seen it), I wasn't ready for the "realistic"ending.
Throughout the movie, Ryan (George Clooney) develops a "relationship" with business woman Alex, who leads (at first glance) a similar, detached life on the road (or in flight). Ryan's attraction brings the slightest warmth and humanity and even vulnerability to Ryan, as he realizes, with the help of Natalie (Anna Kendrick) that he needs SOME human connection. Despite his backpack speech about how relationships hold one down, Ryan realizes, as he explains to his sister's uncertain fiance, that the most important parts of life occur not when one is alone, but when one is sharing life--the pain and happiness--with another person they care about.
This was actually my favorite part of the movie. Ryan, who has publicly denounced marriage, committment, children, and everything that terrifies his sister's soon-to-be-husband, must convince this young man to take a plunge Ryan has yet to even slightly approach. At first he acknowledges all of these fears, and flounders when he sees his older sister's disapproval and tries to get the fiance back on track. But finally he finds his feet, and, like I said before, comes to the realization that as pointless and bleak as life sometimes may seem, it's better with someone else there. "It's better with a copilot."
Ok. So writing that and focusing on THAT message--against the isolation that seems to pervade every part of life (think about it--you can "communicate" and "reconnect" and see what others are thinking and develop relationship without even leaving your computer.)--redeems the movie somewhat in my eyes. But still. The end, when Ryan finds out that Alex has a husband with kids at home? Somewhat depressing.
All in all, a good movie. Good humor. Good message. Just not a typical happy ending.
This WAS well directed, and here's a little clip about one of the most recognizable scenes:
http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2009/12/04/movies/20091204-upinTheAir.html
The NYTimes.com Review:
http://movies.nytimes.com/2009/12/04/movies/04upinair.html
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
I'm dreaming of a white Christmas...
WHITE CHRISTMAS!!
She even had it matted and framed BEAUTIFULLY. Like I said, this is my favorite movie of ALL TIME. I remember watching it for the first time when I was in elementary school. We were on the way back from my dad's mother's house, and my mother sat in the back of our minivan with me as we watched White Christmas on the tiny 3 inch flat screen. And I fell in love. I wanted to BE Vera Ellen! I'm a sucker for the oldies--Bing Crosby melts my heart. Seriously, if you haven't watched this movie, along with Holiday Inn and It's a Wonderful Life, take a few hours PLEASE watch! :)
Sunday, December 20, 2009
I lied. THIS is the last one.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
one last quote for the night...
-HBR
Why I read
~Anne Lamott
(Traveling Mercies)
~Haruki Murakami
(What I Talk About When I Talk About Running)
Friday, December 18, 2009
Holly Jolly Christmas!
So the one plus side to this cold, rainy weather is that it makes it perfectly acceptable to just curl up in bed and READ with a big mug of tea! And this break I'm most excited about getting to all the books I've been wanting to read this semester! Like...
1. Her Fearful Symmetry
2. A Million Miles in a Thousand Years, Donald Miller
3. I am Charlotte Simmons
4. Remembering the Forgotten God, Francis Chan
5. Harry Potter (rereading my favorite parts... eeeek excited!)
6. The Lost Symbol (Just got it last night--I've heard great things about it... Has anyone read it?)
7. Nanny Returns (Haven't gotten it yet but planning on hitting up the library this afternoon... I haven't heard anything about it, though. Any word?)
8. The 4:8 Principle
9. The Reason for God
10. The Freedom Writer's Diary
11. One Day, All Children, Wendy Kopp
Along with all of the other books laying around the house. I think one of my New Years resolutions might be to finally read all of the books I've collected over the years. Maybe. Ha.
Any other fabulous suggestions?
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Andrew, you missed out.
All in all, though, Thanksgiving 2009=success.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Dysfunctional Family Thanksgiving
The story behind the name: Spring Break our freshman year, a group of five of us was wandering around New York City--Bobby, Rachel, Alex, Aaron, and I. Somehow, we assigned roles to each other. Bobby and I were the parents, Aaron was our oldest son, Rachel was the middle child, and Alex was the youngest (I think). Throughout the rest of the week, our family grew--we had mistresses, crack-babies, and illegitmate children until everyone joined the family. One of the last nights in DC, we were out to eat and one of the desserts was called the "Dysfunctional Family Sundae." And so we were named.
This year, I held the 2nd annual Dysfunctional Family Thanksgiving. It was a night filled with sparkling cider, pies and stuffing galore, Matt's famous Turkey (which even the vegetarians admitted smelled VERY DELICIOUS!), Rock Band, and good friends. Heavenly.
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
so thankful.
Monday, September 28, 2009
joy.
Friday, September 25, 2009
happy.
And I am even more certain of my answer.
I. am. happy. And unbelievably so. I am surrounded, in every arena of my life, by incredible, outstanding people (if I spend any amount of time with you, chances are, I think you're amazing.). Inspiring people with huge hearts. HILARIOUS people. I am involved with organizations I think are doing incredible things. I feel like God is putting me in the right place in the right time. I feel His presence in my life.
Why wouldn't I be? Life isn't perfect. But the thing is, if you look for the jagged edges, you'll find them. But if you look for the beauty, it's everywhere. The jagged edges included. If you know my mom, you know she's probably the most positive person EVER. And yes, sometimes this is annoying--mainly when I'd like to be complaining and she keeps trying to readjust my vision. But as much as I sometimes hate to admit it, she's right. I mentioned this earlier, and it's absolutely ridiculous and 99% of you would probably make fun of me for doing this, but I do it anyways. Count your blessings (I literally do this. yes, I'm a nerd.), because the thing is, the more of them you see, the even MORE of them you see. Seriously, try it. Just once. If you think it's totally pointless, you can make fun of me, but it just makes me so FREAKING HAPPY when I remember all the wonderful parts of my day. Life is life. Life is BEAUTIFUL.
Whoever is happy will make others happy too.
-Anne Frank
(PS, this is so true. It's rare that I'm around a truly joyful person and don't leave that person overjoyed as well.)
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
grace.
II Corinthians 12:9
happy day, folks.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
peaches, love, and gorbachev.
"For He Himself is our peace..." ~Ephesians 2:14
Colossians 3:15-17 (New International Version)
Monday, September 14, 2009
count your blessings.
1. realizing that the book I have to read for history is 50 pages shorter than I thought it was.
2. the big hugs I get from the 2 year olds at Waumba Land :)
3. a text from my mom simply saying, I hope you're having a great day.
4. new friends.
5. meeting up with a very special faculty member of the Honors program, who asks me what I'm doing, how I'm doing, and telling me she's proud of me.
6. teach for america, and the wonderful people I get to work with. enough said.
7. sunsets.
8. getting a book in the mail.
9. i love you's.
10. the incredible, laugh inducing atmosphere of a georgia football game... especially after a win :)
And now, back to statistics. Which certainly does NOT put a smile on my face.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
september = love.
1. Changing seasons... cooler weather.
2. Concerts... and after the concerts.
3. Georgia Football... enough said.
happy gameday, chickadees. :)
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Strike?
the main square. Not going to spanish classes. Not going to the
orphanage. Why? Oh, just a national strike that makes it dangerous
for us to come near the riots, which just happen to be everywhere we
normally go, haha.
Good thing this morning was the day I decided to go out for a run. No
big. (Dont worry, mom, this was BEFORE I knew about the strike. There
were just lots of policemen) Oh, but I did get chased by a dog.
Oops. But the run was so nice because I got out there before everyone
had set up for the day, so I saw street vendors preparing their stands
and shops opening... it´s completely different world, which is why I
love running in the places we´ve visited. It´s like I get to see a
whole different world.
Besides that, though, Cusco is INCREDIBLE. Definitely one of my
favorites. Thanks to Grace for updating my blog, by the way!
Internet is hard to get here, but because of the strike... we have
nothing else to do today haha. But back to Cusco. It´s heavenly.
Mystical and beautiful, like a little South American town with a
Western twist. The night view from the Plaza is my favorite. There
are all these little yellow streetlamps lining the cobblestone streets
and the fountain and churches are all lit up. And if you look up at
the mountains, all the tiny houses are lit up, dotting the mountains
with little specks of light. It reminds me of a scene from a story
book. Cusco´s really cool because even though there are a lot of
tourists, it´s a different kind of tourist... the rugged, backpacking,
granola eating tourists. But we do all tend to congregate at the
McDonalds, haha.
Claire, Rachel, Ryan, and Haylee are all here in Cusco, too, so it´s
been really wonderful to be reunited with everyone! This week, the
girls are all taking ceramics lessons... we´re all quite talented.
Ha. But it´s very very fun all the same! Next week we´ll be taking
cooking classes, so soon Anne and I will be able to amaze everyone
with not only our Ghanaian but also our PERUVIAN cooking skills.
Well, my internet time is about to run out (story of my life) but I
love you all and I hope everyone is safe and sound, wherever you are!
Hello Peru
Monday, June 29, 2009
Girl power.
"When you educate a boy, you educate an individual. When you educate a girl, you educate a family. When you educate a family, you educate a country."
This is touching on so many levels. First of all, hearing so many little voices assert this was just... breathtaking, for me, at least. Second, it was a MALE teacher who was ensuring that these children grow up realizing the importance of girls' education. It reminded me of a movement called "The Girl Effect." One of my professors last fall showed us their promotion, and it was SO AWESOME. If I haven't made you watch it yet, please take the time to look at it, it's so cool, from both a people-perspective and just pure advertising genius, haha:
http://www.girleffect.org/
Enjoy!
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Home again, home again, jiggity jig...
"My flight was delayed. I probably would have been worried if it had been on time."
I definitely would have been.
Our last few days in Ghana were nothing short of perfect. Wednesday and Thursday, we were able to keep doing what we had been doing the entire four weeks: basically whatever we wanted. We usually rotated between teaching, computer/administrative work, and goofing off with the kids. Especially the last option as we realized our time was quickly coming to an end. The kids were so adorable, at the beginning of the week we think the teachers told them that we'd be leaving on Friday, so they all kept saying, "Madame, do not leave! Madames, when are you coming back?" I really fell in love with these little munchkins. (Shout out to my ACAD girls: I literally wanted to put them on a cupcake. They were like little marshmallow children) After being home a few days, I really realize how much I miss them loving on us all the time. And as Anne was saying, that REALLY indicates just how much we adored them, because I can honestly say that we had no problem with them touching, pinching, stroking, pulling on, and even biting (chomp chomp haha) us, despite the fact that, sadly, we'd seen many of them climbing in the trash dump outside the school at one point or another. The last two weeks were especially wonderful, because we got to know the kids individually, know their personalities and quirks, and see them as people. Especially in the Stage 3 class, one of my favorite things to do was just sit and watch them interact with each other, joking and laughing and bickering sometimes but always making me smile.
The first day we went to school, a little boy, Nathaniel, was in there because he had fallen and broken his arm. Because the cast wasn't very stiff, he stayed home for a while, and when he came back to school, he spent the day in the headmaster's (John's) office. Needless to say, for a five year old, this is a very boring place. So this week, while the other was working on the computer, either Anne or I would play with him and read to him on one of the couches. Until Thursday, he was SO timid. While most of the kids would always do glamour shots and goof off in front of the camera, he didn't even smile! Thursday, though, suddenly he had a PERSONALITY. Literally, he just babbled on and on and on and danced and sang. It was so hilarious. Anne has a great video of him and the son of one of the cooks, Kojo.
While catching up with everyone, I always get the request, "Tell me EVERYTHING!" I have no idea how to do that. In Ghana, I saw a completely different, beautiful, heartbreaking world. Every day I saw more poverty than I have ever seen, but I also saw the most grateful and content and giving people. We saw thirteen year old boys with machetes. We saw street children living in trash. But we saw the happiest, most faithful people I have ever been blessed to meet. These people GET life. Their first thought is ALWAYS, how can I help this person? When Anne and I arrived, they loved us. They didn't wait to get to know us, they just LOVED us, with all their hearts. We were welcomed by their country, while if they had come to America, they would most likely have been looked away from or provided with minimal help (at best) or scorned at because they were foreigners trying to make a life here. Even at the airport, when the security guards were searching our suitcase and asked "How did you see Ghana?," their eyes lit up when I would gush about the beautiful, welcoming people. They have such pride in their culture and in their hospitality. It's beautiful.
Being home, I miss the little, simple things. Like being home with Anne, just sitting and reading or journaling or just... sitting. Like falling asleep at 10 o'clock and waking up at dawn with roosters. Catching a taxi that I was pretty sure would break down before we made it to Abura. Paying less than a quarter for a huge meal, served in newspaper. Going to school and witnessing TRUE LOVE and adoration from the children. And the simplicity of everything. Anyways, I'll probably keep posting about Ghana, and I'll definitely put up pictures. And then, in a week, I'll leave for Peru! I'm not sure what the internet will be like there, but I'll do my best to update often. Hope you're all doing well!
love, geales
oh, and a note about our flight home. Ha. So Anne and I left our apartment at 2:30am. Meaning, we went to sleep around 11 and woke up at 12:30 to shower, finish packing, and attempt to clean our apartment. Our bus was, unsurprisingly, 30 minutes late (Ghana time, woo!!) But besides that the first leg of the trip went well--it was so cool watching the sun rise as we drove through the countryside!! What a beautiful last glimpse of Ghana :) It was really bizzare leaving in the middle of the night though, because, eerily, we knew that when the sun came up that morning it would appear as if we'd never have been there. Well, it's a weird thought for us. We arrived at the bus station in Accra around 6:30am, which was nice, because everything was just starting up. Anne and I found a street vendor selling Ghanaian donuts, bo froot (sp??), pronounced Bohfroo, which were DELICIOUS, so much more dense than American style donuts and not too sweet, but definitely not the best thing to eat right before you travel. Ooops, oh well, they were worth it, haha. Anyways, then we caught a cab to the airport, which was probably the most confusing airport EVER, but we made it fine, haha, and all of the officials were very nice and eager to help us, especially, as I said earlier, after we commented on the hospitality of Ghana. WE were very lucky to get out of Accra on time, considering now the rainy season is in full swing, bringing torrential downpours every morning. As in, once we couldn't even leave our apartment because it was raining so hard and was so windy! But we got out fine and it was definitely one of the best flights I've been on. The flight attendants were so kind and genuinely helpful, the seats were bigger than normal, and the movies were great. Even the food was REALLY good--they served us FanIce!! A perfect last Ghanaian snack :) The flight flew by (ha, no pun intended) and we even landed about 40 minutes early.
At this point we were like, great, we'll have plenty of time to get through customs. (On a side note, the New York customs is a lot easier to go through and quicker and more rational than the ATL airport. Just saying...) Well, we could have been five hours late and still have been fine. That's right. Five hours. Our flight from JFK to ATL was delayed from 9pm to 2:45AM!! Which really wasn't that bad, actually it was hilarious because at this point Anne and I had slept about 2 hours thursday night and barely 5 the night before, and maybe 1 or 2 on the plane over (for some reason we couldn't sleep, we really regretted that at this point...) so we were DELERIOUS. It was absolutely hilarious, because each time our flight was delayed more we would just crack up. No one else thought it was as funny but honestly, what can you do? Nothing. So we laughed, and we talked about Ghana and the funny things the kids did and had a blast. When the flight finally did take off, however, we were ready to get some sleep. Not ready to part ways, but ready to shut our eyes.
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Last few days in Ghana!
I hope all is well! Anne and I have been enjoying a wonderful, beautiful last week in Ghana. We think this will probably be the last time we can get internet, so this will be my last update before we touch back down in New York! We'll be leaving our apartment at 2am Friday morning to catch a 10am flight from Accra to NYC, and then Anne flies to New Orleans and I fly to Atlanta, both arriving around 11pm/midnight... a long day, haha.
This weekend, Anne, I, and all of the teachers from the school we're working at visited Kakum National Park. We rode all together in our own "tro-tro" which is essentially a 15 passenger van stuffed until it looks like one of those cartoon vans that almost explodes. No lie. Ours was SO nice, though, especially compared to the ones we usually see, which are essentially held together by bungee cords and fly down the road, hopefully reaching their destination intact, haha. But the park was BEAUTIFUL. Anne, sweet girl that she is *sarcasm* told all of the teachers of my fear of birds. And heights. So all the way up to the canopy walk, I was bombarded with "WATCH OUT HERE COMES A BIRD!!!!!!" but it was actually really funny. And we saw NO birds, and the view was totally worth any fear. I can't even describe it. And as we were walking along (the canopy walk is basically 2 by 4s suspended between 7 platforms. Yeah, don't look down) it started raining. Not hard, but enough to make it surreal. It was such a cool feeling. And even better was being able to be around the teachers as they goofed off with each other. Theyre such a fun group! And they loved taking pictures with our cameras. Like, glamour shots. It was hillarious--I think I laughed the entire time. And the ride home was AWESOME. The teachers had brought our drums and just started a sing along, singing lots of really upbeat gospel sounding songs. Everyone was singing and Anne and I just laughed along.
Anne and I really enjoyed the rest of our break, too. Sunday we went to church with John and then chilled at home. Monday, we went to a seamstress and were measured for a "surprise" from the school. Even that was a really cool experience. It was this really small open air room, and the seamstresses just took their time, chattering along as they measured us. As we were leaving, one asked my name and then said, "I would like to be your friend. Will you accept?" Their friendliness here is just so deliberate and genuine and touching. I think that's definitely what I"ll miss most here.
Anne and I spent the rest of the day doing administrative work for the school. It's really great when we can do computer stuff since they aren't really used to dealing with data and our experience really allows us to complete more work in a shorter amount of time, so we've been really happy to help them transfer student records to a computer. Then, last night, John took us to his village to meet his family and see his house. We thought that she was just going to teach us how to fry plantains, but she not only did that, but she also cooked us a whole meal!! She was the epitome of a warm, welcoming grandmother. She even chastised John about not bringing us to her sooner and told us to be very careful eating the street food so we don't get sick. And she cooked us more food than I've ever seen in my LIFE. And his famiily just treated us like we were the most important guests ever, it was so touching. As we were sitting on their patio, listening to the frying plantains and old, crackling radio and watching the sun set against the hills and forest, it just seemed so peaceful and perfect and... like Africa. Ahhhh, love it. So needless to say, Anne and I ate so much we felt like we were going to burst. On the walk home, we met up with one of the other teachers, and after about 10 minutes of talking about how full we were, we saw a FanIce bike. Let me explain the goodness of FanIce... it's basically heaven. It's the richest, most delicious and frothy vanilla ice cream known to man. And it is the perrrrrrfect thing in Ghana. It's the only cold and creamy food Anne and I eat here, so we love it. Anne and I got ice cream bars for ourselves and John and Issah, the other teacher with us, and the guy didn't give us change. When Issah realized this, he literally ran after the bike man and made the man give us change. It was probably one of the funniest moments EVER.
Well, my time is running out but for the next few days Anne and I will be teaching at the school and eating as much delicious Ghanaian food as possible!!
Thursday, June 18, 2009
One week?!?
Monday, June 15, 2009
This one time, in Africa, we were COLD!
After the hike, Anne and I wandered around some shops that were near the tourism center, which is where you set up to hike with a guide and everything, and found some BEAUTIFUL glass and handmade jewelry. Then, we went to a small hotel we had read about in the guidebook to have lunch. The owner was so kind--she came out and sat and talked with us for a while, and her hotel was just like this oasis of calm looking out over the mountains and the jungles. We could see the waterfalls from our table under the covering!! Up next on our agenda was the REAL hiking, the mountain. We were definitley NOT prepared for what was ahead of us, haha. At the shops we had met a group of canadians who had just finished hiking. They asked if we'd ever hiked a mountain before, and we, thinking of Cinque Terra (which WAS taxing...) just kind of brushed it off. Well, this was no Cinque Terra. This was straight up. The whole way. Fear of heights? Yeah, conquered that. We hiked it in about 40 minutes, which our guide was VERY impressed with, and were thoroughly exhausted at the top. But the view was worth it, without a doubt. From the top of the mountain, we could see Togo, which is just north of Ghana, and all these little villages surrounding the mountain. It looked like a toy map, all these little brown huts in clearings spaced out around the mountain. We could even see Lake Volta. It was staggering.
Here's where it gets EXTRA interesting. So, we get down the mountain and ask for the tro-tro (it would be our first... we've been terrified to take one so far) to take us back to Hohoe. Well, guess what, no tro-tro on Sunday. What about a taxi? Nope, no taxi, either. Motorbike? SURE! One of the men that worked at the mountain offered to take us back to the village where Vli was where we could probably get a shared taxi or tro tro (and did). On a motor bike. Anne and I have the new found laid-back-ness/risky-ness, so we say sure. Before seeing the bike. So they bring the bike out... and spend thirty minutes trying to make it work. Great. Do we back out? No, of course not. They finally get it going. So let me describe said bike... it's old, the foot rests are falling off, and, oh yeah, it's built for two. A driver, and a passenger. So where do I ride? The grate on the back. ohh yeah.
So we head off, the driver in the front, Anne in the middle (with a broken footrest), and me on the grate, with my legs wrapped around Anne and the driver and my arms clinging to Anne for dear life, my shorts flying up and showing probably much more than is decent in any country. The road between the mountain and the falls is quite bumpy, so I have to admit I buried my head in Anne's back until I got used to the feeling of almost falling off. But once I did, I realized this was one of the most incredible experiences EVER!
We were riding a motorcycle. Through tiny, hut filled African villages. Through the rainforests. With the mountains on either side of us. WHILE THE SUN WAS SETTING! Can life get any sweeter? No. I can't even describe the beauty of that trip... the sun creating first a yellow and then pink hue throughout the clouds that brushed across the sky, the waves and amazed look as we rushed past villagers relaxing and working outside, and the occasional moment of panic when we swerved to avoid a goat or a pot hole or even... a tro tro (huge van that came a little too close for comfort...) Top ten moment? I'd say so.
So Anne and I head back to Hohoe, have dinner, and get back in the hotel room. Anne goes into the bathroom to wash off her feet...
Anne: Okaay, don't panic.
Geales: Well that doesn't sound good.
[Enters the bathroom, my ENTIRE bag of toiletries has somehow ended up... in the toilet]
MY FIRST AID! MY COMB! MY ADVIL.... MY CONTACTS!!!!!
And then Anne laughs so hard I have to leave the room... well, anyways. It was quite an end. To quite a day.
My time's out, but I hope everyone is doing well! Anne and I are still enjoying every blessed minute here and learning so much and seeing so many beautiful places and people! Lots of love!
And... Happy birthday Granddaddy, I love you!!
Friday, June 12, 2009
Yay for street food!
We returned to Kakumdo rested and ready for another week, though we were so exhausted we fell asleep around SEVEN that night. It was totally worth it though, haha. Teaching has been wonderful. The kids are still happy to see us, but no longer feel the need to completely bombard us, though I still get tugged, and even bitten. Yes, chomp chomp chomp :) haha. But they're adorable and certainly one of the best parts of being here. Since today was Friday, it was all fun and games. The culture professor taught Anne and I on the drums for about an hour, while the kids played field games and the teachers joined in, alternating between drumming and refereeing various races. Finally Anne and I were dragged into one of the relays. It was so fun because we tied and so all of the kids just rushed us and started hugging and screaming. Then all of the teachers took the drums and started playing. The kids got so excited and we switched off learning dances and teaching them swing dancing. I can't even explain how much fun it was. The music was so loud and everyone was just laughing that you didn't even really think about anything else, you just kind of went with the music. It didn't matter that we (or, I. Anne has pretty good rhythm) didn't have rhythm or know their dances perfectly, just let loose and had fun. The kids just loved watching us dance thought whatever we did was hilarious--from disco moves to the scuba moves to just moving and jumping. Pure bliss. I just can't even explain how happy it made me! It was definitely one of my favorite memories.
I find it so hard to believe that yesterday marked the halfway point of our journey. In two weeks, Anne and I will be boarding another plane, leaving behind Ghana, though definitely not for good. As many people told me, the first week was definitely slow, but the second week was the fastest week I've ever had. And probably the most meaningful. The first week of the trip, we adjusted. We took in all of the new sights, new customs, and definitely got freaked out by overly friendly taxi drivers and the like. This week, though, we're still soaking it all in, but we're taking new meaning from each interaction. The people of Ghana have the most beautiful souls. Everywhere we go, we are greeted like the most important guests. An old man we walk by each day on our way to school never fails to tell us, "Welcome," as we walk by. And the smallest of gestures will cheer us up when we're stressed about making it home before dark. The other day Anne and I were in a grocery (which is really a small building about the size of a closet with three walls and a porch) and looking at candy. We asked the girl, who looked about two years younger than us, what they were, and she tried to describe them. Then she took one, handed it to us, and offered for us to try it. No one would do that in the states. Well, almost no one. Then, as we were walking out, saying thank you, she said "You are always welcome here!" Being a stranger in a strange land, Anne and I are realizing how much these little things really do make our day. Hardly a few hours pass when we don't go "Awww" because someone seemed to really care about us, despite only having met us three minutes prior. The people here just value human interaction in a way that either I just don't see every day or that is truly unique. It's not about how someone can help you, it's about how you can help every single other person out there. It's such a refreshing, humbling, and beautiful viewpoint. Ah. gosh, I really do love it here. When we arrived, one of the men who helped us referred to this as "Sweet, sweet, Africa" and Anne and I decided we really hoped we would feel the same adoration for this beautiful place, and speaking for myself, I do. And I can't imagine how much I'll love it even more after another two weeks!
Ok, so off of the sentimental stuff... Anne and I have made several GREAT discoveries in the past few days that have REALLY changed our quality of life, haha. One: Instant coffee. I'm sure it's nothing like the coffee in America, but it's caffeine, and it's hot, and it's strong. And it has made our mornings SO SO SO much easier, haha. Two: Fresh. Bread. In the village area across the street from Anne and I, a woman bakes bread in a clay dome that is absolutely DELICIOUS. It's this sweet, white, pure, fluffy bread. Anne and I can eat a loaf in about 3 minutes flat. It's nice just to have a starch besides rice... Which brings me to our third savior: street food. After originally avoiding these little pieces of heaven in fear of something like South Korea, Anne and I finally bit the bullet and tried street food. Roasted corn on the cob, rice and black eyed peas, fried plantains, and fried yam balls. It's such a nice, satisfying change from rice, and so good to get some protein and vegetables and... ah, it's safe to say we'll probably be eating that 6 out of 7 nights per week.
Well, I'm about out of time but I will certainly try to update again in a few days! Hope everyone is doing well, I'd LOVE to hear from you, just shoot me an email. This weekend, Anne and I are going to Hohoe (Ho-hoy) and the Wli Falls, the highest waterfall in Ghana. Should be GORGEOUS! Lots of love!!
Sunday, May 31, 2009
So first of all, yay for fans. Anne and I found another Internet Cafe with fans and I'm at about the coolest I've been, but like I said, we're definitely getting used to the heat. So last night when we got home, Lawrence and Nicolas (a friend) brought us our stove. Which consists of a gas tank and a range top. Grrreat. Haha, but seriously we're really excited, especially after last night. We also got a tea boiler to boil water, which is awesome, and knives (so that we can have fruit! yay!). We had planned on going out for dinner but by the time we were going to head out, it was DARK, and after about three steps out of our door we turned around and decided to attempt cooking. We boiled water in the water boiler and poured it out about three times to make sure it was clean/sanitary enough to use and then made Ramen. We were so proud of our first African cooking experience. Plus, now that we can boil water, we don't have to worry about having enough bottled water to brush our teeth. We don't trust it quite enough to drink it, but who knows how adventurous we'll be by the end of the month. But after eating, we just chilled and talked, enjoying the fan in our living room, which is probably the best (and coolest) room in our flat. Then, while Anne was on the phone with her mom, explaining how safe we felt, the power went out. Again. Luckily it came back on after about 20 minutes, and we were totally fine but it just reminded us that we are, in fact... in Ghana. We were exhausted from the heat and walking around, so we passed out around 11pm, another great night of sleep, even though apparently I kept getting really startled (according to Anne) whenever she'd move.
We heard the rooster again this morning, and woke up around 7am to get to church. It was such an amazing experience, but I'll have to write about it later because I'm running out of time! Love you all!!
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Obruni!!!
Today, Anne and I slept in till about 9, although we were woken up by roosters squaking outside our window a bit before 6. there are goats and chickens and roosters and pigs EVERYWHERE even throughout the city, just wandering around. we both slept very well, thanks to some Tylenol PM (Good call, Mrs. Crumbley). We're planning on getting a fan for the room soon, though, but we're really fine. we're getting used to the humidity. anyways, today lawrence, the head of cejocep, and john, the headmaster of cejocep international school, where we'll be teaching, came and took us around cape coast, which is about a 15 or 20 minute taxi ride from kakumdo. these two men have been so kind and willing to take care of us. we walked around the cape coast and the marketplace and saw the castles, and anne and i got some groceries so we don't have to go out for every meal. we don't really have a place to cook so we stuck with cereal and cookies. we're hoping to get a kettle so that we can make pasta. well come back very well nourished, haha. there's so much i want to tell you and explain but i feel like i can't put it into words! i can't wait to show you pictures. everyone here is so nice, especially the people who lawrence introduces us to. the kids are hilarious and so adorable, every time they see us they get so excited and chant 'obruni, obruni, how are you.' on our way to the internet cafe, which is the first place we've been alone, a group of about 10 just started following us. it's so funny.
I absolutely love it here, especially the people. They're so happy, and life is so simple and beautiful! I love you all and I'll see you when I return!